I've been a big-time Etsy fan for a while now. I love being able to shop directly with the person who makes something. Or someone with the same retro and vintage tastes as I have. I knew Etsy had lots of unique wedding items, but I've recently discovered how they are organised nice and neat. Have a look at Etsy Wedding Team
Vintage Lace Wedding Invitation
They have a great blog dedicated to finding the perfect item for your modern, individualised, handmade or vintage wedding. You can follow them on Twitter too, where they suggest cute, covetable wedding lovelies. Here's a sample of some things I found on Etsy today.
Handmade Birdcage Veil
1950s Bridesmaid or Wedding Dress
Paris Silk Bolero